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I am a 31 year old lady all ready for my marriage next year. I have been in a live in relationship with my fiancé for the last 4 years and we have had a great understanding until now. It happened ever since I moved back to my hometown. He has not been talking to me over the phone or messaging me. When I ask why he says he is too tired, however, I cannot believe him because he is always online and talking to someone. I confronted him with this many times but he says I don’t trust him enough and we end up fighting. I don’t want to lose what we had. Please tell me what to do.

Dear Anonymous,

I seriously do empathize with you but it is time that you snap out of your love struck feelings and come back to reality. My advice for you is to the dump the guy because it is plain evident that he is cheating on you darling. Trust is an under- rated word nowadays. It is time to rack your brains and think about your life coolly. The question right now is not whether he is cheating on you but whether he will be trustworthy after marriage. Think about it. Marriage is not a game. Would you be able to bear his infidelity after marriage?

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My daughter is so influenced by her friend that she wants everything her friends have. We try to give her all that she wants but at times our limitations stop us. But she is not ready to understand, once she wants something, she goes crazy about it. How do I make her understand?

Peer pressure! A fearful thing for parents, your daughter is not the only victim. Its about time you involved her in the home finances and showed her that money does not grow on trees. Talk to her and if that does not work then a bit of spanking might do good.

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My wife is a smoker. She keeps telling me that she has stopped and stuff but she smokes behind my back. What should I do t stop her from smoking as we are planning a baby?

Elvi says: 90% of the time, telling people that smoking kills does not help. Had that been the case then the packing would have been a great deterrent. Girls are emotional and linking cigarettes with the baby should make her realize the danger to the unborn baby. Asking her to do it in front of you will let you know how much she actually smokes. Videos should do the job as no mother would want her baby to suffer. Fear is definitely a factor in your case so use this to your advantage.