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My boy friend feels our ethics and personality do not suit for us to continue our relationship. But we have been sexually well engaged which makes me feel guilt if we fall apart. He is so much an idealist and I am indifferent kinds. How do we work on this?
If he would have really been idealistic on actual grounds and he believed that you are not appropriate for him then he would have not initiate sexual activity. This indirectly suggest that ethics, morals and idealism are just words use to get from you in reality he is no more interested in continuing this relation and wishes to move on. I know this might be too hard for you to accept but still it requires serious insightful thinking and depending on that take your decision.
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I am a 23yrs old girl, my problem is I could not concentrate in my studies I was always an average student. In 10th I got 64% & in 12th I got 61%. After 12th I could not decided what to do then trying for engineer but can’t get good rank. Then I decided to do a degree in maths. But yet could not complete it. Now I feel like a looser as can’t get any energy to do anything. My family is very supportive but nobody understands my problem. Now I feel shame to talk to people. I feel that my family will be insulted because of me. I love them a lot so I can’t hurt them, but I can’t live with them. I want to run away. What should I do? Help me.
You should get evaluated on aptitude and interest scale which will give you a clear idea about what you can do ahead. You might not have the right aptitude to do engineering or mathematics but might be good in some other aspect. Rather than running away from your family find a way in which you can balance your capabilities and your families’ expectations both in an effective manner.
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I am 26yr old in LDR. We met few times and had sex. Recently he started business n became busy. Earlier we had time to chat for long know each other’s interests and background well. We enjoy phone sex too. Now he cites his frequent travels and job-demands needing great attention but calls for about 20mins and talks only about sex. I miss him and want to feel him more emotionally and sexually. That’s why I am unable to call for breakup to check for his real interest in me. Please advice
It seems that you are not his prime priority as even though he is busy he can spare sometime for a relationship if he wants to maintain but it seems that he is interested in only physical relation with you. But if that is not what you want then you need to talk to him about what you feel and clarify with him about your expectations in the relationship.