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My boy friend feels our ethics and personality do not suit for us to continue our relationship. But we have been sexually well engaged which makes me feel guilt if we fall apart. He is so much an idealist and I am indifferent kinds. How do we work on this?
If he would have really been idealistic on actual grounds and he believed that you are not appropriate for him then he would have not initiate sexual activity. This indirectly suggest that ethics, morals and idealism are just words use to get from you in reality he is no more interested in continuing this relation and wishes to move on. I know this might be too hard for you to accept but still it requires serious insightful thinking and depending on that take your decision.
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I am a girl of age 19 and having a boy friend whom I love a lot. I want to please him but don’t want to give him my vagina before marriage. I did oral and with hand with him to please him. But I have 1 big problem he wants me to suck all his semen and even to drink it. I am surprised and feel like vomit in doing it. I also think that it may cause pregnancy. I request you to kindly answer me is it necessary for a girl to drink his men’s semen in sex? What should I do, I don’t want to lose him.
You cannot get pregnant by drinking semen. It is a matter of personal preference whether to gulp it or not. If you don’t like doing this honestly talk to him that whatever you are doing is to please him, but at the same time you don’t like what he says. I don’t think that by conveying your dislike you will lose him if he also loves you.
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I am 26yr old in LDR. We met few times and had sex. Recently he started business n became busy. Earlier we had time to chat for long know each other’s interests and background well. We enjoy phone sex too. Now he cites his frequent travels and job-demands needing great attention but calls for about 20mins and talks only about sex. I miss him and want to feel him more emotionally and sexually. That’s why I am unable to call for breakup to check for his real interest in me. Please advice
It seems that you are not his prime priority as even though he is busy he can spare sometime for a relationship if he wants to maintain but it seems that he is interested in only physical relation with you. But if that is not what you want then you need to talk to him about what you feel and clarify with him about your expectations in the relationship.