Womans Panorama 1st English Magazine dedicated to the women of North East India featuring beauty tips, health tips, makeup tips https://womanspanorama.easternpanorama.in/index.php/ask-elvi 2024-11-21T08:44:50+00:00 Joomla! - Open Source Content Management 2014-03-13T09:56:21+00:00 2014-03-13T09:56:21+00:00 https://womanspanorama.easternpanorama.in/index.php/ask-elvi/639-sir-i-love-a-guy-he-is-very-sincere-and-very-possessive-on-me-even-im-sincere-and-possessive-on-him-the-problem-is-he-has-got-two-friends-i-feel-they-are-misleading-him-in-our-love-matter-those-two-guys-are-flirts-im-afraid-what-will-i-do-if-they-c womanspanorama prasant.opensource@gmail.com

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Sir, I love a guy he is very sincere and very possessive on me. Even I’m sincere and possessive on him. The problem is he has got two friends, I feel they are misleading him in our love matter. Those two guys are flirts I’m afraid what will I do if they change my lover. What should I do? I have talked with him many a times regarding this matter but he is trying to convince me and not leaving their friendship. What should I do? Please guide me.</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Lisha</strong><strong></strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong></strong><strong>Dear&nbsp; Lisha</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">If he loves you truly then nothing should change his mind. If his feelings towards you are influenced by his friends then consider that his feelings were not genuine. Do not feel insecure, if he is meant for you then nothing should change his mind, otherwise he was never meant for you.</p>

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Sir, I love a guy he is very sincere and very possessive on me. Even I’m sincere and possessive on him. The problem is he has got two friends, I feel they are misleading him in our love matter. Those two guys are flirts I’m afraid what will I do if they change my lover. What should I do? I have talked with him many a times regarding this matter but he is trying to convince me and not leaving their friendship. What should I do? Please guide me.</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Lisha</strong><strong></strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong></strong><strong>Dear&nbsp; Lisha</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">If he loves you truly then nothing should change his mind. If his feelings towards you are influenced by his friends then consider that his feelings were not genuine. Do not feel insecure, if he is meant for you then nothing should change his mind, otherwise he was never meant for you.</p> 2014-03-13T09:56:17+00:00 2014-03-13T09:56:17+00:00 https://womanspanorama.easternpanorama.in/index.php/ask-elvi/640-one-of-my-friends-is-physically-attracted-towards-me-he-is-a-man-of-principle-a-has-high-moral-values-but-cannot-resist-the-urge-of-hugging-me-or-being-physical-with-me-but-he-says-this-is-not-a-love-but-just-a-chemistry-that-we-both-share-what-is-thi80 womanspanorama prasant.opensource@gmail.com

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>One of my friends is physically attracted towards me. He is a man of principle &amp; has high moral values. But cannot resist the urge of hugging me or being physical with me. But he says this is not a love but just a chemistry that we both share. What is this chemistry &amp; if there is even a little bit of love/ affection involved in it how I would convince him that he loves me.</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Miami</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Dear Miami&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">He is clear in his mind for feelings that he has for you, but probably you are unable to accept the fact that he is just physically attracted and no emotional involvement is there. If you are comfortable with this equation then you may continue or else discuss your emotional need openly with him.</p>

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>One of my friends is physically attracted towards me. He is a man of principle &amp; has high moral values. But cannot resist the urge of hugging me or being physical with me. But he says this is not a love but just a chemistry that we both share. What is this chemistry &amp; if there is even a little bit of love/ affection involved in it how I would convince him that he loves me.</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Miami</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Dear Miami&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">He is clear in his mind for feelings that he has for you, but probably you are unable to accept the fact that he is just physically attracted and no emotional involvement is there. If you are comfortable with this equation then you may continue or else discuss your emotional need openly with him.</p> 2014-03-13T09:56:16+00:00 2014-03-13T09:56:16+00:00 https://womanspanorama.easternpanorama.in/index.php/ask-elvi/641-im-34-yr-old-married-woman-my-husband-is-a-doctor-from-reliable-sources-ive-came-to-know-that-hes-involved-with-one-lady-i-have-talked-to-him-on-this-issue-but-he-denies-for-any-such-relationship-what-should-i-do womanspanorama prasant.opensource@gmail.com

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>I’m 34 yr old married woman. My husband is a doctor. From reliable sources I’ve came to know that he’s involved with one lady. I have talked to him on this issue but he denies for any such relationship. What should I do?</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Bada</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong> Dear&nbsp; Bada&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">When your hubby is denying about such relation then before doubting further please make sure that your information about your husband’s affair is true. If it’s true then you have two options; either discuss this matter with your husband, giving all evidences you have or try to get in touch with involved lady. Probably woman can understand another woman and you can wakeup her womanhood. You can think of involving your close friend into the matter (it’s very sensitive step and depends upon your interpersonal background). You may think of separation depending upon your familial, economical and social background as a last resort.</p>

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>I’m 34 yr old married woman. My husband is a doctor. From reliable sources I’ve came to know that he’s involved with one lady. I have talked to him on this issue but he denies for any such relationship. What should I do?</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Bada</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong> Dear&nbsp; Bada&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">When your hubby is denying about such relation then before doubting further please make sure that your information about your husband’s affair is true. If it’s true then you have two options; either discuss this matter with your husband, giving all evidences you have or try to get in touch with involved lady. Probably woman can understand another woman and you can wakeup her womanhood. You can think of involving your close friend into the matter (it’s very sensitive step and depends upon your interpersonal background). You may think of separation depending upon your familial, economical and social background as a last resort.</p> 2014-03-13T09:56:14+00:00 2014-03-13T09:56:14+00:00 https://womanspanorama.easternpanorama.in/index.php/ask-elvi/642-im-20-yr-old-unmarried-girl-because-of-my-small-bust-line-i-feel-very-inferior-what-should-i-do-to-regain-my-confidence womanspanorama prasant.opensource@gmail.com

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>I’m 20 yr old unmarried girl. Because of my small bust line, I feel very inferior. What should I do to regain my confidence?</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Precila</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Dear Precila</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">Small breasts and low confidence is like two sides of the coin, they always coexist. First you should acknowledge that you are not alone; innumerable girls all around the world have the same problem. Secondly; you need to accept that there are no medicines, lotions or massage technique by which you can increase your size except augmentation surgeries done by cosmetic surgeon. You may take cosmetic surgeon’s opinion for surgical augmentation. You may do some chest muscle exercises (Pectoral exercises) to make your bust line more prominent. Try to focus your attention on total fitness and well being. This is very important for positive self image.</p>

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>I’m 20 yr old unmarried girl. Because of my small bust line, I feel very inferior. What should I do to regain my confidence?</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Precila</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Dear Precila</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">Small breasts and low confidence is like two sides of the coin, they always coexist. First you should acknowledge that you are not alone; innumerable girls all around the world have the same problem. Secondly; you need to accept that there are no medicines, lotions or massage technique by which you can increase your size except augmentation surgeries done by cosmetic surgeon. You may take cosmetic surgeon’s opinion for surgical augmentation. You may do some chest muscle exercises (Pectoral exercises) to make your bust line more prominent. Try to focus your attention on total fitness and well being. This is very important for positive self image.</p> 2014-02-13T10:29:06+00:00 2014-02-13T10:29:06+00:00 https://womanspanorama.easternpanorama.in/index.php/ask-elvi/620-i-have-been-married-for-9-years-but-have-never-got-emotional-satisfaction-or-love-from-my-husband-or-my-in-laws-they-have-been-never-there-when-i-needed-them-my-husband-also-is-a-very-reserved-person-and-has-always-ignored-me-in-the-9-years-of-our-marr womanspanorama prasant.opensource@gmail.com

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>I have been married for 9 years but have never got emotional satisfaction or love from my husband or my in -laws. They have been never there when I needed them. My husband also is a very reserved person and has always ignored me in the 9 years of our marriage. Now I have met a man with whom I have been friendly for the past 2 years who loves me a lot and cares for me like anything. He has even told his family about us and I have met his brother too. He comes from a very good back ground and is a very decent person with no addiction or bad habits. After so many years I have finally found happiness. He takes care of my 6 year old son more than his own father does. Now we both want to get married but I am scared of society. What to do? Please help me</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Sonakshi</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Dear Sonakshi</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">Society has definite place in our life but inner happiness is much important. If you really think that you get more internal happiness with him then you should not get scared of society. People may opine about what you did but at the same time they are not bothered and really concerned. More over, these things are short lived so always put yourself ahead of the society. If you are happy and satisfied with your life then society automatically starts accepting the way you are.</p>

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>I have been married for 9 years but have never got emotional satisfaction or love from my husband or my in -laws. They have been never there when I needed them. My husband also is a very reserved person and has always ignored me in the 9 years of our marriage. Now I have met a man with whom I have been friendly for the past 2 years who loves me a lot and cares for me like anything. He has even told his family about us and I have met his brother too. He comes from a very good back ground and is a very decent person with no addiction or bad habits. After so many years I have finally found happiness. He takes care of my 6 year old son more than his own father does. Now we both want to get married but I am scared of society. What to do? Please help me</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Sonakshi</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Dear Sonakshi</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">Society has definite place in our life but inner happiness is much important. If you really think that you get more internal happiness with him then you should not get scared of society. People may opine about what you did but at the same time they are not bothered and really concerned. More over, these things are short lived so always put yourself ahead of the society. If you are happy and satisfied with your life then society automatically starts accepting the way you are.</p> 2014-02-13T10:28:51+00:00 2014-02-13T10:28:51+00:00 https://womanspanorama.easternpanorama.in/index.php/ask-elvi/621-i-have-many-confusions-and-hatred-thoughts-about-the-society-and-my-environment-i-dont-like-to-be-in-this-society-which-is-with-all-evil-thoughts-guide-me-please-most-of-the-time-id-like-to-be-alone-i-love-loneliness-than-adjusting-and-living-in-th womanspanorama prasant.opensource@gmail.com

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>I have many confusions and hatred thoughts about the society and my environment. I don’t like to be in this society which is with all evil thoughts. Guide me please. Most of the time, I’d like to be alone. I love loneliness than adjusting and living in this nasty society. Please help me. I’m an engineering student learning information technology. </strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Lucy </strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Dear Lucy&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">There has to be some reasons for your hatred towards the society and your environment. You need to work on them with the help of professional. We are social animal; we need society as much as we need food and water. Loving loneliness is fine but hating society is not healthy, try to work on underlying causes.</p>

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>I have many confusions and hatred thoughts about the society and my environment. I don’t like to be in this society which is with all evil thoughts. Guide me please. Most of the time, I’d like to be alone. I love loneliness than adjusting and living in this nasty society. Please help me. I’m an engineering student learning information technology. </strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Lucy </strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Dear Lucy&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">There has to be some reasons for your hatred towards the society and your environment. You need to work on them with the help of professional. We are social animal; we need society as much as we need food and water. Loving loneliness is fine but hating society is not healthy, try to work on underlying causes.</p> 2014-02-13T10:28:50+00:00 2014-02-13T10:28:50+00:00 https://womanspanorama.easternpanorama.in/index.php/ask-elvi/622-i-am-depressed-i-cant-concentrate-on-my-work-others-feel-that-i-am-fool-as-i-am-short-tempered-there-is-no-one-with-me-and-no-body-to-guide-me-correctly-for-my-future-i-am-alone-i-want-to-make-myself-prove-against-others-decisions-i-have-to-prove-m womanspanorama prasant.opensource@gmail.com

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>I am depressed. I can’t concentrate on my work. Others feel that I am fool as I am short tempered. There is no one with me and no body to guide me correctly for my future. I am alone. I want to make myself prove against others decisions. I have to prove myself that I can face my life problems alone. I am working with Mnc Company and I want to make myself and my carrier better in future. Please help me with this your quick response will be highly appreciated. Please help me. Thanks,</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Samantha</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Dear Samantha&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">To find out reasons of your depression and loneliness, I need to have information about your age, marital status, family supports etc. Two things I want to point out from your mail. First you need to work on your short tempered nature because according to you, your temper is making you sound like a fool! (You will find tips on anger management in answers of other questions). Secondly, leave the obsession of proving yourself and conquering on others. All you need to do is just put your sincere efforts and do your best, rest of the things are natural result of it.</p>

<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>I am depressed. I can’t concentrate on my work. Others feel that I am fool as I am short tempered. There is no one with me and no body to guide me correctly for my future. I am alone. I want to make myself prove against others decisions. I have to prove myself that I can face my life problems alone. I am working with Mnc Company and I want to make myself and my carrier better in future. Please help me with this your quick response will be highly appreciated. Please help me. Thanks,</strong></p> <p style="text-align: right;"><strong>Samantha</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Dear Samantha&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;</strong></p> <p style="text-align: justify;">To find out reasons of your depression and loneliness, I need to have information about your age, marital status, family supports etc. Two things I want to point out from your mail. First you need to work on your short tempered nature because according to you, your temper is making you sound like a fool! (You will find tips on anger management in answers of other questions). Secondly, leave the obsession of proving yourself and conquering on others. All you need to do is just put your sincere efforts and do your best, rest of the things are natural result of it.</p>