Lisha

Dear  Lisha

If he loves you truly then nothing should change his mind. If his feelings towards you are influenced by his friends then consider that his feelings were not genuine. Do not feel insecure, if he is meant for you then nothing should change his mind, otherwise he was never meant for you.

Miami

Dear Miami  

He is clear in his mind for feelings that he has for you, but probably you are unable to accept the fact that he is just physically attracted and no emotional involvement is there. If you are comfortable with this equation then you may continue or else discuss your emotional need openly with him.

Bada

Dear  Bada    

When your hubby is denying about such relation then before doubting further please make sure that your information about your husband’s affair is true. If it’s true then you have two options; either discuss this matter with your husband, giving all evidences you have or try to get in touch with involved lady. Probably woman can understand another woman and you can wakeup her womanhood. You can think of involving your close friend into the matter (it’s very sensitive step and depends upon your interpersonal background). You may think of separation depending upon your familial, economical and social background as a last resort.

Precila

Dear Precila

Small breasts and low confidence is like two sides of the coin, they always coexist. First you should acknowledge that you are not alone; innumerable girls all around the world have the same problem. Secondly; you need to accept that there are no medicines, lotions or massage technique by which you can increase your size except augmentation surgeries done by cosmetic surgeon. You may take cosmetic surgeon’s opinion for surgical augmentation. You may do some chest muscle exercises (Pectoral exercises) to make your bust line more prominent. Try to focus your attention on total fitness and well being. This is very important for positive self image.

Sonakshi

Dear Sonakshi

Society has definite place in our life but inner happiness is much important. If you really think that you get more internal happiness with him then you should not get scared of society. People may opine about what you did but at the same time they are not bothered and really concerned. More over, these things are short lived so always put yourself ahead of the society. If you are happy and satisfied with your life then society automatically starts accepting the way you are.

Lucy

Dear Lucy    

There has to be some reasons for your hatred towards the society and your environment. You need to work on them with the help of professional. We are social animal; we need society as much as we need food and water. Loving loneliness is fine but hating society is not healthy, try to work on underlying causes.

Samantha

Dear Samantha    

To find out reasons of your depression and loneliness, I need to have information about your age, marital status, family supports etc. Two things I want to point out from your mail. First you need to work on your short tempered nature because according to you, your temper is making you sound like a fool! (You will find tips on anger management in answers of other questions). Secondly, leave the obsession of proving yourself and conquering on others. All you need to do is just put your sincere efforts and do your best, rest of the things are natural result of it.